A Well-Mannered Dog is a Must These Days
Do you want a well-mannered Chihuahua that you can be proud of when around others? A well-mannered dog can result in a peaceful home. Do you know why Chihuahuas and some other toy breed dogs have such a bad reputation? Here’s a hint: it’s not because they were born bad. Two reasons actually:
- The dog wasn’t properly socialized
- Lack of training — Because they are so small, some owners let them get away with rudeness. Some even think it’s cute.
I love to take my Chihuahuas with me whenever I can. It’s one of the best things about having a toy breed dog. If you want your Chi to be welcome at more places, then he or she must be a well-mannered Chihuahua.
I had to learn this the hard way. I will admit that I let my first Chi get away with barking and snarling at strangers because like so many other new Chi moms and dads when he was little, I thought it was cute. “Oh look, he’s protecting me.” It wasn’t so cute when he got older.
I made the same mistake that many first-time Chi parents (and some not so new) make. Training him was not something I even thought about, so I never took the time to train mine to be a well-mannered Chihuahua. I did not put an end to this unwanted behavior immediately. When I realized my mistake, I did not make the same one with my other Chis.
Do you want your dog to be a good ambassador for this wonderful, intelligent, adorable breed? Do you want a well-mannered dog?
Here are 5 easy to follow tips.
- Correct bad behavior immediately! (never yell or hit your Chi!) Do this with a firm “NO”.
- Always use positive training methods
- Catch them doing something good.
- Be firm, but kind.
- Never correct them after the fact.
Correct Bad Behavior Immediately!
If you don’t correct bad behavior immediately, it will become a habit. If you allow it to continue, it will get ingrained in their little brains that you expect this behavior. It’s easy to teach them good manners, but very difficult to un-teach bad behavior.
Always Use Positive Training Methods.
Always, always use positive training methods. Never, NEVER hit or yell at your dog! If you do, they may stop the behavior at that moment, but will only start to fear you. A fearful dog is NOT a happy dog. Only tyrants train their dogs using fear (and that’s the kindest word I can use).
Positive motivation works because Chihuahuas and dogs in general love your attention and they will perform anything you teach them over and over to get that positive attention that they love.
Catch Them Doing Something Good.
The best and easiest way to teach them manners is to catch them in the act of doing something that you want them to do. Then praise and/or treat them immediately. They will soon get the idea that you approve of this behavior.
As an example, Chihuahuas will often stand on their hind legs trying to reach something. If you want to teach your dog to stand, take forward steps on hind legs, or turn a circle, then praise and/or treat them when they are naturally standing. It’s then pretty easy to add taking a few steps, or turning in circles once they understand “stand”. They will soon gladly do it on command because you have taught them that you approve of that behavior.
Be Firm, But Kind.
When they begin a behavior that you don’t want, in a firm, but kind voice tell them NO! You must be consistent. They will soon get the idea that you don’t like that particular behavior and will stop. If they are sitting on your lap or near you at the time, firmly tell them “no” and gently place them on the floor immediately.
This works because along with your positive attention, they love nothing more than to be on your lap or near you. Again, if you do this consistently, they will soon get the idea that you don’t like that behavior and it results in them being on the floor and not beside you where they want to be. Chihuahuas want to please you and they know when you are not pleased.
This works for any Chihuahua that may growl when someone or another pet comes near you. With training, he will learn to be a well-mannered Chihuahua whenever others or other animals come near you while on your lap.
Never Correct Them After The Fact.
Never tell them no, or bad dog after the fact. They will have no clue what they did wrong. For instance, if they have an accident, but you don’t find it until later, don’t give it any attention at all, just clean it up and say or do nothing. Your dog will not understand the correlation between the accident that happened hours or even minutes ago and your displeasure.
If you consistently apply these easy steps you will soon have a well-mannered Chihuahua. One that you will be proud of when you are with others.
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Or our book: “How To Train A Chihuahua”.
If trying to train your Chihuahua seems like too difficult a task for you, hire a trainer or take a class. It is not as expensive as you may think and the investment will give you and your Chihuahua a lifetime of joy together.
You can take an online course that I think is a good investment. It’s called K-9 Training Institute. It is an online course that is easy to follow and teaches you how to train your Chihuahua to be a well-mannered Chihuahua step by step, just like they train service dogs. We know how well-mannered service dogs are. They have to be because they go everywhere and in all different situations with their humans. They have both a “Master Class” and a “Lite Version” that will fit most budgets. However, begin with their FREE workshop so you can see what and how they teach you to train your Chihuahua.
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You can also find a trainer near you that will come to you or offer classes in your area. If you think more one on one training would work best for you, this website will give you a list to choose from that are near or in your area. Just click the button below to see those in your area.
Great article! My chi, Bella, came from a puppy mill and was very badly abused. We love, love love her! The problem is her incessant barking & growling when ever we have visitors. I have tried a lot of things, to no avail. She hates men and no matter how kind they are she will not allow touch. She tolerates my hubby who has never been anything but kind with her. Any time I leave the house she retreats to her crate and will not come out til I get home. I come home early a lot! I know she is damaged from trauma but not sure how I can help her. She misses out on a lot of love from others. She trusts no one but me which is really hard for both of us. She is a beautiful little soul and I would love to help her but not quite sure how. Any ideas? Thank you for any advice. Jude
Hi Jude! I wish it was as easy as giving you some tips in answer to a comment. Dogs that come from a puppy mill many times have emotional issues that are just not simple to overcome. My best advice would be to find a trainer or an animal behaviorist in your area, preferably one that specializes in severe behavior issues. I know that a lot of people can not afford one, but you may be surprised to learn that they are not as expensive as you may think. I can tell you that female dogs are barkers! :). We have two (may be getting another female) and sometimes the barking is ear-splitting! You can teach them the “enough” command (we are working on it), and that helps. I’ll put a link to a post I wrote about teaching your Chihuahua the “enough” command, and a link to a website where you give them your zip code (if you are in the US) and it will give you a list of trainers and animal behaviorists in your area. The website is free to use and it won’t cost anything to just call around and ask about prices. Good luck and bless you for taking in this little girl!
HOW TO STOP THE CONSTANT BARKING!
STOP THAT INCESSANT BARKING!
FIND A TRAINER OR ANIMAL BEHAVIORIST NEAR YOU
In response to your invitation to share what I think is most important to teach a Chihuahua: Don’t get underfoot! Chi’s are so tiny that getting stepped on or tripped over could be life threatening.
Hi Gina! That is very true! Chihuahuas are notorious for that. 2 of mine are right on my heels wherever I go. It can be especially dangerous when they are puppies. They don’t know of the danger of getting too close. As they grow older, and wiser, 🙂 they learn to watch out for your feet as a general rule. But, I have seen my share of broken bones at the veterinary hospital that were caused by getting accidently stepped on. Thank you very much for the comment! ~ Linda
My Chi goes into an aggressive behavior if he sees another dog while we are walking. No matter how many times I say no she keeps barking like an automatic machine gun and she won’t stop until the other dog is out of sight. So I pick her up and say no but she continues to bark. She is 2 and half. Is it too late to train her? What am I doing wrong?
Hi Gail!
No, it’s never too late! There are several things that you can do. First, your Chi should know the “sit” command (if not, here’s how) When you see a dog coming toward you… before — that is very important! — he begins to stiffen and bark, ask him to sit and look at you. Be sure to have lots of his favorite treats with you. When he sits and as the other dog passes, keep giving him treats — as long as he is calm and keeps looking at you. This is going to take practice, consistency, and patience. You should try to practice this at least once every day until you see the results that you want. But, if you stick with it, he will soon have no aggressive reaction to seeing another dog.
I have included a list of links to articles that I have written on the subject that I think will help. Try out the suggestions and remember that change doesn’t happen over-night. You will have to be consistent and patient, but if you are you will see results. Good luck! ~ Linda
1. Your Chihuahua barks because he is afraid. This article will help you to understand and give you some tips on how to “condition” him to not be afraid of other dogs: How To Help Your Chihuahua Overcome His Fears.
2. Understanding the behavior is the first step to solving the problem, this is a good article that explains more about that “Secrets Behind Aggressive Behavior in Chihuahuas”.
3. Sometimes unknowingly we are doing exactly the opposite of what we should and therefore are actually making the situation worse. This article explains why “no” doesn’t work. “Mind Your P’s and Cues”.
4. You must get him to focus strictly on you and not what is going on around him. “Teaching Your Chihuahua To Focus Only On You”.
Hello I loved reading this. I have a 4 year old Chihuahua and she’s great with all people young or old, but she always barks at other dogs. I tell her no but it hasn’t mattered. If she meets a dogs more than once and gets to know them she’s fine but with dogs who are ‘strangers’ big or small she barks no stop at them. Any tips please (she lives with a Huskey and adores him) not sure what I can do. Thank you
Hi Natasha,
I’m so glad you enjoyed that article! I have some articles with tips to stop your Chi from barking, and several on training that has tips that will also help with that. Just check out the different categories in the menu bar and you can also search for a keyword in the search bar at the top of every page (the little magnifying glass icon).
Thank you for your comment! Let me know if I can be of further help. ~ Linda
We adopted our three year old Chihuahua last July. He has finally warmed up to me but he is a stinker when it comes to others. Even my husband. Help! We keep trying any and all advise and still he gets very nasty. Is it possible to retrain him even if we don’t know his background?
Hi Annette,
This is a very common problem with Chihuahuas. He can be retrained, however, it is very difficult. After something becomes ingrained in their little head, it becomes like a bad habit that is very hard to break. The best thing you can do is to invest in a professional trainer that can offer you in-home one on one training. The longer it goes on unaddressed, the worse it will get and the harder it will be to stop. I know that an in-home trainer can be expensive, but it would be worth it for a peaceful home and a well-mannered four-legged friend! There are lots of articles here (just search for a keyword in search at the top of the page) on my website that I think would be very helpful to try to control it yourself in the meantime. It would take more space than is available here to tell you everything that I would suggest you try. I know that isn’t what you wanted to hear, but there are just no quick fixes for this problem. Good luck ~ Linda
I really do appreciate your reply and suggestions. There was no way that you would be able to give me the quick fix stuff in an email. I will say that at 64 years old, I’ve trained a number of puppies in my life time. Cheeto is a whole new kind of stubborn for me 😀. Thank you!
Annette
As loveable as they are….stubborn is definitely one of their not-so-desirable traits! 🙂 Some people think Chihuahuas are dumb. They are dumb like a fox! They are very very smart, but stubborn if they don’t want to comply! Thank you for your understanding. I get so many emails from people with similar problems and I wish I could go into each person’s home and fix the problem. I wish you and Cheeto the very best! ~ Linda
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